Does Love hurts.

[Ashvin]

I don't have ever had any girlfriend because love may be very painful sometimes.My friend's heart was crushed when her girlfriend let him down .Do you think that love makes people suffer , me i think so and what about you??

 

[McGraw]

Lust leads to disappointment, but love leads to heartbreak.

Don't worry about it, heartbreak is a worthwhile experience in itself. You havn't truly grown up until you have been through it.

 

[Habunake]

I've been crushed many a times, but I'd rather love then not love. You just have to keep trying, and never give up.

Then again, you don't have to get a spouse, and you can be perfectly happy single.

 

[Yotsuba]

While it's true love can cause some serious suffering, the joy and happiness one feels when they've found the right person...I believe it is all worth it. Not only did I go through a living nightmare to end up with my current boyfriend (and we've been together for about 4+ years now or so ^^), but I know some other people who went through some terrible stuff too. To think I could've given up on love because of a bad experience or never tried it...the thought of never ending up with my boyfriend seems more painful than the years or so of crying I did before meeting him.

Like Habunake said, being single is fine too. If you really want that special someone though, don't just avoid it because you're worried about pain.

 

[bell02+]

Crushes and love is different. Crushes you seem to feel a physical attraction, but with love its with the whole person. You might not always want to make out with her, but you'll want to be there with her (at least in the begining) all the time. Just if that person does something insignificant for you makes you really happy, and you view and trust the person with all your heart and soul. Also other girls, no matter how physicallly attractive they may be, won't attract you in the same way (sometimes anyway). I guess its hard to truely picture that, but when you fall in love you'll know it. A lot of people go through a lot of crushes, but few ever really fall in love.

I guess when you loose that it is one of the worse pains you can feel. Its a dangerous feeling were your true friends and family will become the most important to you and you can't ignore them or you'll only be falling deeper into the pit. However when you are in love (which isn't something you can go out and just say I won't fall in love, because it is not something you really can choose) you don't care about those conciquences.

I guess what I want to say is that it only hurts when it fails, but its not something to be scared of.

I guess I should make one thing of romance advice though, make sure that your partner likes your close friends and family, as with respects any dreams you may have. Get them to become close friends with her, and not just the girl friend (or boy friend, what ever). It takes a lot of will power if you are in love, but if they don't break it off early so you don't have to worry about any pain. Its something very important for the future of a good relationship.

 

[evkl]

Love and interaction are the things that we're lacking most nowadays. And in times like these, where the whole world looks bleak--as some very wise men once sang--"love is all you need."

 

[Ashvin]

Thanks for your helpful advice to you all , i hope that i've not remember you all bad memories if yes then please excuse me.

 

[ck920]

I think true love only hurts when you are separated. Because if its true love then you can forgive whoever it is no matter what they do.

 

[waix]

not getting any, sure hurts