Housewarming--gifts?

[Blackjack Gabbiani]

A friend of mine (you may remember KetMakura) just moved in with her fiance, so I'm wondering if I should get them anything. And if so, is a check acceptable?

 

[Alabaster.j.cat]

Hmm is it a new house/apartment to both of them, because if it is then A Housewarming gift/check is very acceptable. However if one of them is just moving in with the other, then I don't think it's very appropriate.

 

[Blackjack Gabbiani]

Yeah, it's a new place for both of them.

 

[Alabaster.j.cat]

Then I'd say it's quite appropriate for a check, or any sort of gift.

 

[Illidan]

If you're looking to spend alot, go with appliances or furniture.

If you don't want to spend too much, go for candles or something else that is decorative.

 

[Blackjack Gabbiani]

Well, I think it would have to be a check given that she lives halfway across the country from me.

 

[Andrew]

Oh, unless you're invited over, don't bother. It's money wasted essentially. Come on, let's be honest. If I go to a housewarming, I get a gift, but never give money unless specifically asked for it, it's rather impersonal. A cheap ikea vase with beads works! It gives the impression you care.

 

[Argy]

Yeah, money is pretty impersonal. If you don't want to buy something concrete, at least get a gift certificate or voucher.

 

[QuietDragon]

Condoms!
Or a plunger.
Maybe two pairs of slippers and pyjamas? I like pyjamas...