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Revenge of the Boyega

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This is a thread about your temper: i.e, if you're levelheaded and don't get angry easily, or if you're a fireball of blazing wrath who wants to murder everything sometimes and even all the time.

In other words, are you a Kylo or a Windu? Say it, don't spray it
 
I don't get angry easily. I don't think any of my friends have ever heard me raise my voice.
 
I dont usually have a temper except when someone really stresses me out, scares me or Im really anxious and stressed and/or tired and hungry or something. Im usually a pretty patient and understanding person but there are a few things that can set me off sometimes, usually this doesnt just happen though, it builds up and I dont have a short fuse in general.
 
I am normally passive unless I've had a really bad day or it is just hot and the heat makes me more cranky. Reading the news has also pushed my patience but I limit that to me getting mad online and I try my hardest not to let that leak into my offline life. Either way, I never get angry to a point where I want to knock things over and when I do lose my cool, my anger subsides fast.
 
I think this sums me up pretty well
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Yes, I am by default an emotional person who gets angry at the slightest of fcking sneezes and god im mad just THINKING ABOUT those fcking sneezes. I think a lot of people can testify to my temper and bouts of sullenness, where I tend to react very stormily to the slightest of inconveniences. Like tissues. You either lift the packet clean off the surface and it falls to the ground, or it won't come out.
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I'm very mad now.

Anyway, other times I am very passive. I generally tolerate strangers or my extended family's annoying quirks, and I won't tell them to shut the hell up and go tenderize their hands before I do it for them. Especially children, because I feel like I don't have the right to tell them off and I certainly don't want to provoke antagonism or sobbing. Eueghghgh.

I basically have prolonged episodes of both. Sometimes I'm a fluffy Porg, other times I'm a Kowakian Monkey Lizard. I'm very erratic, I suppose. Its like being half Italian and half posh English.
 
I'm usually rather mellow and chill, which I think means that I'm taken more seriously in those exceptionally rare times when I do lose my temper. Surprise factor, probably.
 
Despite that I feel like I come across pretty chill online (and honestly I really don't get mad online much, so it's not exactly inaccurate), IRL I definitely have a temper. I can generally deal with stuff in public by putting on a smiling, mouse-y, cute "mask" so to speak, but sometimes I am burning inside lol. My mom calls it my Russian temper. Like, my problem is that if something irritates me, I have a hard time getting over it if it REALLY irritated me and depending on who was involved. If you get me going about something that made me mad, I could rant for quite a while about it and tangentially related topics and you bet I will let you know. However, I'm also unfortunately an angry crier, and crying when you're angry isn't very fun when you can't be taken seriously.
 
FinalArcadia said:
I'm also unfortunately an angry crier, and crying when you're angry isn't very fun when you can't be taken seriously.
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Sympathy. One moment I'm spitting sparks, and then such unadulterated rage hits my eyeballs and then I get teary and then to compensate for both I laugh. It makes me seem psychotic.

Maniacs are seldom taken seriously, and a rare moment of watery wrath loses all gravity because you burst out laughing. It's a terrible cycle, and I don't know if I should blame Russian-ness on it or the fact that a horse kicked a stone at my head as a small child and ever since then I've been a bit meuhhhghg.

I think I'm going to go with the Russian thing - all of those bear-fur caps gives one a hot head.
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unfortunately yeah i have a really, really short temper orz... it gets on my own nerves sometimes so i can only imagine how hard my friends find it. B( i'm more prone to being passive aggressive and snarky when i lose my temper as opposed to actually shouting at people though.
 
Personally, I don't get angry all that often. Lots of things annoy me, sure, but it takes a LOT to really get me angry. I try not to let stuff get to me, because getting angry doesn't really solve anything, even when I'm burning with rage on the inside. You definitely won't see me shouting at people or completely losing it in the middle of the street, that's for sure. Although there have been times when some annoying people online had me pissed beyond pissed for various reasons, with the most recent being someone randomly plagiarizing one of my fics completely, word for word. That issue thankfully got rectified, though he's gonna be in for it if he pulls that stunt again. But if I am having a bad day, I usually just get cranky and find stuff that'll make me feel better afterward.
 
My mom told me that ever since I was a little kid I’ve been very calm and hard to anger. I tend to cry easily, but only my sister has the ability to really anger me, it seems.

It takes a lot for me to get angry, and once I actually am angry it’s not really that bad. I tend to be pretty passive and it tends to end very soon too. It’s kinda funny considering there were rumours of me having anger issues in elementary, when in reality you’d have more luck angering a starfish, lol.
 
I have a really really bad temper. Like, punch walls to the point that I have scars on my knuckles bad. On the flip side, it takes a LOT to actually get me angry. Most things that make people angry I'm just like, "meh, whatever." Even people purposefully trying to piss me off I either ignore them or laugh at them. I think the only person who can really set me off is my mother, though. She's kinda horrible. But lately (like, over the past year or so) whenever she tries to tear down my confidence or insult me or push my buttons I just laugh at the crazy old lady.
 
I don't get angry even when I should and bottle myself instead. I keep not getting angry until it comes out. I need to learn to be assertive.
 
I get angry very easily, which usually comes out in short bursts, but when it does, its bad. i also am very emotional and usually have no way of cooling down and stay in a bad mood for hours. i tend to freak out when i make a mistake, and that includes being online, so if i delete a bunch of stuff randomly thats why
 
Unfortunately, my temper is very quick, and I can get extremely mad over nothing in a matter of seconds. Examples of this are if I am playing a competitive video game, and someone beats me (in a situation where I should have won due to skill) foolishly in the round, and I most likely will get angry and want a rematch. I don't let my anger get in the way of enjoying time with others, nor do I just fling my rage around when in a community either, it actually only gets to me when in specific games, around people who may also be angry back.
 
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