Your Character Flaws?

[Farfetchd the Vigilante]

So I think we all probably have that one thing bad about yourself, or something we need to improve on to better ourselves.

Do you have any you would care to share?



Personally, once I've decided I don't like the way act, talk, ect; it's very hard to change that view of yourself in my eyes. You could do the exact opposite, and I woukd still remember the way you were. It's very hard for me to forgive.

 

[Dr. Buni]

I value the appearance of people and things more than I (supposedly) should. I just dislike ugliness in general and I am not ashamed to admit that.

Although I am not sure if I count this as a character flaw

 

[Cat Luver]

My character flaw is I have a bad Potty mouth.

 

[Vixi]

I value the appearance of people and things more than I (supposedly) should. I just dislike ugliness in general and I am not ashamed to admit that.

Although I am not sure if I count this as a character flaw

^That and I am easily frightened.

 

[Farfetchd the Vigilante]

Another thing. I refuse to clean my room, but with others things like bookshelves or papers I HAVE to clean them

 

[ShyOctopus]

I am probably as lazy as Snorlax sometimes x_X

lazy octopus is lazy

I also don't have high self confidence, I doubt myself a lot and I know I shouldn't, but it's very hard not to do.

 

[Alpha71689]

I can be too generous, sometimes. I'll eventually be taken advantage of, but I don't do anything about it, because I don't like to cause a confrontation.

 

[Farfetchd the Vigilante]

I can be too generous, sometimes. I'll eventually be taken advantage of, but I don't do anything about it, because I don't like to cause a confrontation.

That's not really bad ^____^
You just have to make sure you know when to stop giving. You don't need confrontation to do that, just say no will work most of the time, if their a true friend.

 

[Alpha71689]

I can be too generous, sometimes. I'll eventually be taken advantage of, but I don't do anything about it, because I don't like to cause a confrontation.

That's not really bad ^____^
You just have to make sure you know when to stop giving. You don't need confrontation to do that, just say no will work most of the time, if their a true friend.

Easier said than done, but I appreciate the sentiment.

 

[Mintaka]

Generally I'm fickle. Like time to time I'm so lazy, but some other times I'm rushing myself and others -_-; Sometimes I'm too calm (like, people would tell me obvious jokes but I wouldn't show the reaction they wish they'd see from me), but sometimes I'm emotional (like when I can't get important work done in time, oh god). The fickleness usually changes depending on the situation I'm in - me at home and me at work, it's like two different people sometimes. x_x

 

[Rainami]

I have issues motivating myself, for one. I also have issues controlling my appetite, and when I eat a lot I get really upset because I'm horrified of gaining weight. Among other issues.

 

[pokemoll]

i'm a little vain and conceited and can be quite opinionated and rude.

 

[Farfetchd the Vigilante]

In my opinion it's good to be opinionated. Sure you might make someone feel bad if it's about them, but I'd rather hear it straight up then from a friend.

 

[Cap'n Jack]

If I had to judge myself I wouldn't know where to start, but I think the most common negative attribute I've been assigned over the years is narcissistic, conceited, selfish, possessive, etc..

 

[Proxima Centauri B]

I can get worked up at the smallest things and certain small things can even make me quite mad at times and I hate being angry. I sometimes take things way too seriously and can be little too high strung at times. I also am too much of a wimp for my own good -_-

 

[CrackFox]

I'm really lazy and unmotivated. I'm often too sarcastic and i'm way less confident than I would like to be in public. I find it hard to take relationships seriously, whether it be friends or a boyfriend. I only really show affection to animals and when someone seems to like me a lot, it makes me feel claustrophobic instead of happy. I don't like/enjoy being hugged or kissed which does make me feel very odd.

 

[Stardust Crusaders]

I'm very opinionated, slightly too vein and I'm quite lazy. If I can get someone else to do something for me, I will. I've tried to kick that habit like 1000 times but I still somehow after kicking the habit find myself asking my boyfriend to make me dinner or to clean our livingroom. I also tend to value my opinion more than other peoples any time they can't put together a structured argument and over-analyse situations.


...also I pick my nose.

 

[Umbreon Freak]

I tend to cling to the past too much, even when I should move on from things.

 

[Serpentsounds]

I have/had a destructive temper. This plagued me as a teenager, because being pubescent, I lacked sufficient emotional control. Since then, I've discovered methods to control it if I become enraged, and also to avoid it in the first place.

I tend to be a bit more apathetic than most people about some things. That is, barring extreme situations. If a friend begins to become estranged, I often won't make extra effort to contact them, because there are always other things to do. They'll contact me when they feel like it. If I get caught up in doing something, I will sometimes ignore a prior responsibility because "well, I didn't care about it that much to begin with." This can sometimes make me plain unreliable. Things like these may end up making me seem like a jerk at times. Well...scratch that, it actually does make me a jerk. I imagine it's all somehow rooted in self-interest anyway.

There are plenty of other inherently bad thoughts that instinctually go through my head (things like prejudices), but I can reason them out, and they won't manifest externally. So I wouldn't consider them character flaws. Nobody is affected by how you think, but plenty are by how you act.

 

[dig]

I'm really lazy and unmotivated. I'm often too sarcastic and i'm way less confident than I would like to be in public. I find it hard to take relationships seriously, whether it be friends or a boyfriend.

Wow, that's pretty much me right there. I'm pretty fucking guilty of just kinda drifting away from friends because kinda get sick of them...That's pretty shitty. I don't need people as much as others do. That's not to say that I don't fucking adore @Kaori; or @Dolce;, it's just that I'm kinda fine just having those two, I don't often seek out friendships because I don't like feeling so committed, like going out on the weekend, buying birthday gifts etc. I kinda just don't give a shit about most people.

I'm also pretty lazy, which is why I still haven't gotten back to you on our VMs. XD