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Honestly, this post confuses me. Are you saying that most shippers see ships as solely wish-fulfillment and what they want to see, over expanding on what the show actually provides on the characters to its viewers? In other words, are you saying that shippers ignore the character’s personalities and identities and rewrite them in order to fit their narrative, over respecting the source material and their original character development? I never really interact with other shippers at all, so I’m just curious. Personally, I like Amourshipping for my self-improvement, and the fact that I can relate to both Ash and Serena. There’s nothing wrong with people spending time on creating fanfiction and fanart if it makes them happy. However, I would rather spend my time improving aspects of myself to make a relationship work in real life, over obsessing over fictional characters having a perfect relationship. To me, it feels like your post generalizes all shippers in this way. It ignores other perspectives of people like me, as I personally use shipping as a motivator for self-improvement outside of the show. I’m not trying to argue with you exactly, I just want to understand what you mean better.In my experience dealing with shippers, people care more for upholding the idea of the perfect couple and then superimposing the characters onto it. That’s not writing a story; that’s building a shrine. You can see how many fanfics go “Ash will basically be invincible and he’s 14/16/18/22”
The other reason I’ve seen people obsessively ship is the false sense of finality. People believe once a ship is solidified, it can never be undone. The characters and timeline can only move forward. I defer anyone who believes this to read Spider-Man: One More Day.